An Open Letter to My Grandpa

Dear Grandpa,

It's hard to find the right words to sum up your significance in my life---but I'll give it my best shot. You've lived a lot of life and withstood the tests of time. You've seen things that most people can only imagine. And you've witnessed the many milestones in, not just your kids' lives, but also your grandkids. 

You've been to numerous baptisms, birthdays, graduations, and weddings. You have had the chance to experience life with your nine grandkids and fifteen great-grandkids; that alone is something to celebrate. However, I don't need to tell you that, because you've expressed your gratitude several times. Let's face it, you may mask yourself as a stubborn, strong-willed, and hardened German; but deep down there is a soft heart with a gentle soul. (And, yes, I called you stubborn).

All jokes aside, you have served as the backbone of our family for years. Life has thrown its curveballs at you.  There may have been times where you bent, but never broke--even when most people would have shattered; and that's something I truly admire about you---that and your work ethic.

You see, growing up I spent a lot of time at your house and almost every memory I have with you includes the outdoors or some sort of project. You have never been afraid to get your hands dirty or complain about working. In fact, you can't sit still even in your eighties. (Must be where I get it from). 

One of my fondest (and favorite) memories is going outside with you and grandma to pick fresh peas from the garden--so simple, but so meaningful. As I grew older, I realized it's one of my favorite memories because it describes your life very well. You planted a seed, established your roots, and cultivated your resources to reach your goals and built the life that you aspired to create--just like a garden. 

Your drive, patience, and creativity didn't stop in the garden. Instead, it branched out to the garage where you spent countless hours working on your boat or fixing/building new furniture. Of course, your hobbies didn't come without a bit of a challenge and maybe a few swear words muttered in German ;) but, again, you never gave up. 

Another characteristic I admire about you is that you simply show up. You show up for your kids by visiting them. You show up for your grandkids by attending our sporting events, graduations, weddings, etc.; and you show up for your great-grandkids on their birthdays and holidays---something so simple, yet absolutely priceless. Please don't ever underestimate the power of your presence. 

Because of you, Stormee will know what it's like to be loved by others and be there for others. She will know what it means to work hard, persevere, and love unconditionally. She will understand how to get back up when life knocks her down; and though she may bend, she will never break. And it's all because of the example you set. 

Grandpa, you have lived life to its fullest. You have cultivated a fruitful life full of wonderful relationships and memories that will never be forgotten. You have worked so hard for so long that it's time to relax and enjoy the life you've fabricated. You have served your time as the family's backbone; it's time to let someone else carry that responsibility. It's time to sit back and enjoy the ride with your great grandkids. Thank you for being a great example to my baby girl and for enduring all those years of hard work, dedication, and responsibility.

Sincerely,

Your "obstinate" grand daughter